Monday, November 18, 2013

Brother...? Sister.....?

A dog pile of Christianity brotherly love. 
What happened to calling each other brothers and sisters in Christ! A new way I have been looking at those boys in church and body of Christ, not as prospective date. Some one pointed out to me that I needed to look at them as God's Creatures and Brothers in Christ. For that is what they are. When you start looking at them that way you can start a deeper relationship not only in a worldly way but spiritual one as well. 
A relationship to comfort, support, and hold each other in the walk and body of Christ. 
A giant group hug of my brothers and sisters.
I love these kids.


 I am in a time in my life where I am changing my thinking. The crushes I have liked is not the ones I like now.... Really I am not crushing on anyone. For it is a process into thinking about these boys I see everyday but don't really interact with as brothers. However I have always been friends is family person. If you were my friend then you are like my brother or sister.

Picture taken by Heather Blevins
June 2011
 Isn't this how God wants us to be? Calling each other "Brother Smith" and "Sister Smith." Our older brothers, elders, professors call us younger siblings... brother and sister.  I believe and could bet that God smiles every time these older siblings call us "brother or sister"

My daddy is my brother in Christ and he is already with the Lord asking his questions. When a sibling is struggling we are told/ called to help them, embrace them and to be God's hands and feet to our brothers. Before I was even baptized into the family, brothers and sisters wrote stories about my dad and put together books for my siblings and me.

Sisters then and sisters now through Christ sat with me at my dad's funeral an personal relationship of sisters. I know there is a time when that you ever needed something another has lifted you up.

Why can't we call brother and sister giving us a reminder of our journey does not stop here. Our Journey leads to the gold finish line.

Now, Brothers and Sisters? Are you going to call some one brother in this new blood family through Christ?
Sister Heather surrounded by kids we love.

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

When to start Christmas???

This is to all your naysayers or Christmas early birds,

I go to college and there have been debates on when Christmas should start before or after Thanksgiving. This is my opinion that I have formed over my three years of college. 

Living at College is a whole another realm that is not the real world.... Christmas is at the end of the month in December giving us a month to focus on wonderful holiday with our loved ones and being thankful. For the College world this has to start in November to get the full effect of the month. 

The first week of November or so the Bridge office at OC puts up their little fake tree. So the students can enjoy it for the month before we break for the winter holiday. At least at my college, Oklahoma Christian when I get back from thanks giving I have less than two weeks till finals.  So the students are finishing projects and studying for finals and have no time to enjoy the wonderful holiday. 

Thanksgiving is a time to be thankful for what God has given to us and one of those things is Christ who was born and died for our sin. I am not saying forget about this wonderful holiday that starts our sugar coma part of the year. While celebrating it we can hang our lights and sing our carols to celebrate a month of Christmas with our loved ones at college.

I was once a naysayer like some of the debaters, however, I didn't start debates with every person who wants to start early.  It was not until I arrived at OC and encountered the wonderful space of the Bridge office and it's staff. This was my freshman year. I was there when they set up the tree in the first week of November. 

The Bridge office has a tradition this tradition is an ornament exchange for any one who brings one and settle it on the tree. Later, during finals week you can come select another ornament off the tree and take it home. 

Also during the month you can walk into the office and there will be Christmas music playing. One of my favorite mentors counts the days till Christmas starting the day after.  I would walk in my freshman year in October with a countdown till Christmas. I enjoyed this time with the Bridge office celebrating before the month began. 

This does not mean that they forget Thanksgiving it is quite the opposite. Every year on the week of Thanksgiving they hold a lunch for all the professors and mentors that help out with the program, thanking them. 

We are called to give God thanksgiving everyday. Especially on Sunday's when we fellowship in Christ death and Resurrection.  Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 10:16, "Is not the cup of thanksgiving for which we give thanks a participation in the blood of Christ? And is not the bread that we break a participation in the body of Christ?" (NIV).  

American traditions is time for family and friends getting together. The story goes that this comes from the pilgrims and Indians came together to eat in thanksgiving. Ironic, that they eat together before the fighting and killing went on, friends turned enemies.  Thanksgiving is eating turkey, pumpkin pie, and pecan pie (not me but I am special) and this year I am going to Bob Bob's and Grandma's so I am going to watch the football games. 

I know that this is not going to change anybody idea of Christmas or when it should be celebrated. This is an argument for us college kids who want to celebrate with our loved ones on campus before the craziness of finals began. I certainly will not be in the Christmas spirit when finals come around. 

In the college realm:

  • YOU college NAYSAYERS: just let the early birds have their fun. The spirit of Christmas should be celebrated early if their time for it. Thanksgiving is not one day of the year but everyday. 

  • EARLY BIRDS:  have fun but don't be thankful the things you have. Because it is a Wonderful life!
REAL WORLD: It may be a bit to early start the day before thanksgiving, unless you put just your lights up before it gets cold and the freeze hits. The Rhema Bible church would working on their lights close to fall breaks.